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      Dot @KayElle last edited by

      @kayelle Oh you did get a difficult start to life. Glandular fever is a very common start to ME/CFS unfortunately.
      I hope you are managing to avoid pushing yourself too hard, even if those unpacked boxes are sitting there staring at you accusingly!

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        McNibbles last edited by McNibbles

        Hi.

        I've been struggling with ME/CFS since April 2019. I'm a single mum with a 6yr old son, I work part time and I struggle to get through every day. Most nights my son is the only one who eats because I'm just so tired that I don't even care about myself anymore. Sometimes I've dropped him at school and I've got no shoes on, or eaten anything because I take so long to get moving in the mornings and I don't have the time to sort both of us out so obviously he will be the priority but it's embarrassing. It's quite hard and I feel like I fail him a lot because I've never got the energy to do anything with him and I'm forever tidying the house because it takes me 10x as long do get things done.

        Anyway, I'm looking forward to getting to know people on here and learning some ways to help me cope with the day to day things that are such a struggle to get done when you're constantly exhausted.

        I edited it because it was so down and depressing when I read it back and I felt bad. Life is still good sometimes and we have good days, it just sucks always feeling shattered by 2pm.

        Cheers
        Jo

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          Dot @McNibbles last edited by

          @mcnibbles Welcome here.
          Being a mum with ME/CFS is SO hard.
          Congratulations on keeping your little one fed and taken to school.
          I've been there.
          Housework is impossible!

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            gretch Community Moderator @McNibbles last edited by

            Welcome to our little community @mcnibbles. I hope being with us helps a little.

            She/her
            Posts written on Kabi Kabi Country

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              izzyblue26 @gretch last edited by

              Hello everyone,

              I am a university student in my twenties from South Australia. I have been dealing with with a variety of symptoms since 2018 and finally received a diagnosis of CFS at the start of 2021. It was such a relief to finally have an answer as to why I had been feeling rotten for so long, especially because almost every test I had done came back with normal results. Whilst I don't know for sure I have a feeling that I developed CFS as a result of testing positive to Ross River Virus in 2018.

              I am so glad to have come across this community and hope you all have a lovely day πŸ™‚

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                emsarah @izzyblue26 last edited by

                @izzyblue26 I'm from SA too πŸ™‚ nice to meet you!

                She/her
                Diagnosed Jan 2022

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                  Glimmer @izzyblue26 last edited by

                  Welcome @izzyblue26. Nice that you have joined our little group. πŸ€—

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                    Nat @izzyblue26 last edited by

                    Hi @izzyblue26, it’s lovely to meet you. πŸ˜„ πŸ‘‹

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                      gretch Community Moderator @izzyblue26 last edited by

                      Hello and welcome @izzyblue26

                      She/her
                      Posts written on Kabi Kabi Country

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                        artist55 @izzyblue26 last edited by

                        @izzyblue26 welcome πŸ€— I hope you will enjoy being part of this community as much as I do!

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                          JohnBx last edited by

                          Hi folks, I'm a long-termer. I'll try to be brief.

                          I got sick in 1984 when travelleing through California/Nevada during the Incline Village cluster outbreak. I was diagnosed with ME by a GP in England. In 1992 I contracted the Epstein-Barr virus and developed Glandular Fever in Brisbane. My health deteriorated further and was eventually diagnosed by a haematologist. After a long battle, I was awarded DSP by the Administrative Appeals Tribunal. My health improved and I moved back to Europe and was almost fully functional until I had a flu vaccine in 2003 and crashed for 12 months. I returned to Australia in 2008.

                          I've been able to self manage since then but recently hit another glitch after my third dose of Pfizer. Up to that point, I was able to work part-time. I spend my days resting and pottering around the house. I refer to my condition as Post Viral Chronic Fatigue Syndrome as I'm not comfortable with the ME/CFS label. I'm not sure whether my current flare is related to the COVID-19 vaccine, but I don't regret having it. The old symptoms, that I thought were behind me, have returned.

                          I'm listening to my body and getting as much rest as possible. I moved to the Central Tablelands area west of the Blue Mountains a year ago and haven't been able to find a GP that is experienced in working with CFS patients. Any recommendations would be much appreciated.

                          Cheers,
                          John

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                            Dot @izzyblue26 last edited by

                            @izzyblue26 Hello and welcome!
                            Sadly, Ross River virus does morph into ME/CFS way too often. Much sympathy for the last three of four years.
                            Great to have you here, do come and join in as much as you can.

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                              Dot @JohnBx last edited by

                              @johnbx Hello to you and welcome here. What a horrible roller coaster you've been on, although hooray for the good years in between the bad ones.
                              Fingers crossed your health might improve again.
                              Looking forward to seeing your posts here.
                              (No help with a doctor sorry).

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                                izzyblue26 @Dot last edited by izzyblue26

                                Thank you all so very much for the warm welcome πŸ™‚

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                                  LucyG last edited by

                                  Hi everyone! Just found out about you from an article about long covid and how it resembles chronic fatigue. 33 years and finally people get what I'm talking about
                                  I'm considered mild to moderate now. It's been a few years since I fell asleep at the dinner table.
                                  My management is better since working part time

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                                    gretch Community Moderator @LucyG last edited by

                                    Hi @lucyg really glad you found us. Welcome to the forum.

                                    She/her
                                    Posts written on Kabi Kabi Country

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                                      Glimmer @LucyG last edited by

                                      Hello @lucyg. Welcome to our forum. πŸ‘

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                                        emsarah @LucyG last edited by

                                        @lucyg hello! 😊

                                        She/her
                                        Diagnosed Jan 2022

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                                          Lau_EA_Aus @LucyG last edited by

                                          @lucyg Welcome πŸ€—
                                          I hope you will enjoy the support from this wonderful group of people. If you need support to get started feel free to reach out πŸ’šπŸ’™πŸ’œ

                                          she/her - ME/CFS since 1998, diagnosed 2004
                                          My role in the forum is to help maintain a safe space, supporting growth and development.
                                          If you would like to organise a Telehealth Nurse appointment, use the following link https://www.emerge.org.au/telehealth-nurse-service

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                                            Dot @LucyG last edited by

                                            @lucyg Welcome here 🌼 I hope you are able to join in here often.
                                            However I do imagine you need to work extra hard to manage ME/CFS and part time work. Medals for you! πŸŽ– πŸŽ– πŸŽ–

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